This unprecedented storm and its aftermath bring a flood of emotions, too. Houston gets the larger press coverage, but many other South Texas communities are suffering. The magnitude of damage is unimaginable, yet to be fully determined, but the human response is tremendous. And yet most of us out of harm's way feel somewhat helpless. We're grateful, but we can't watch the media coverage without our own emotional roller coaster. We can't escape a somewhat nagging guilt that we ought to be doing more. But, what?
My photo from the Hui Retreat Center in Molokai, Hawaii...
So, What Do We Do Now?
Of course we want to help. Many of us have family and friends who've been impacted, and their specific requests can be addressed. But logistics and practical reality preclude many other non-specific responses. And should. Well-meaning but disorganized "help" and unsolicited stuff can create more problems than benefits.
Some Considerations
Unless you're responding to a specific request, don't initiate in-kind donations. SEND MONEY directly to credible organizations and non-profits that are specifically organized for such events. The Salvation Army, Goodwill, The Red Cross* and HEB's emergency services are examples of responsible stewards of your contributions. Larger faith-based organizations can also be trusted with your financial gifts. The media are publishing lists of credible organizations worthy of your trust, those who will see that your gifts honor your intention. And, don't forget those responding to the challenges with animals of all sizes and circumstances.
*Some concerns have been expressed about the integrity of The Red Cross stewardship of donor funds, especially the administrative expense/charitable distribution ratio. I'm convinced these issues have been thoroughly vetted, Red Cross is being carefully scrutinized and I feel confident that we can trust the integrity of their current charitable administration. I salute those who prompted this review.
A Note of Caution
While these challenges bring out the best in us, they're also a magnet for the worst. And many unscrupulous players will try to take advantage of the crisis, vulnerable victims and naive donors. Do your homework and research. Choose worthy partners. Groups where you can donate online in a secure method. You can also take checks to local branches of national non-profits such as those mentioned above, and be assured that your gift is applied appropriately.
Be careful of well-intentioned, but inexperienced faith-based groups, non-profits and individuals that may not have the capacity to deliver as promised. Another reason to limit your financial gifts to experienced trusted hands.
Our Best Solution? Look Homeward, Better Angels...
I love this from David Wolpe, in "Teaching Your Children About God."
"There is a marvelous story of a man who once stood before God, his heart breaking from all the pain and injustice he witnessed around him. "Dear God," he cried out, "Look at all the suffering, anguish and distress in the world." Why don't you send help?"
God responded, "I did send help. I sent you."
I'll never forget a national journalist interviewing a major military officer during the Iraq war. He was asked, "How do we build the best defense and strengthen the U.S.?" We and the journalist expected some iteration of "more bombs, planes and armaments." Instead, the seasoned military leader said, "Work to build up our schools, our economy, our healthcare, our justice system...That's how we strengthen this Country." Wow. Powerful!
And, that's what we do. If we feel inadequate about our ability to help the storm victims, let's turn our energies homeward. Let's channel our charitable intent where we know it can make a difference. Our own hometown. And, if you're still feeling sympathetic to storm challenges, you can bet that your local Goodwill, Salvation Army and Red Cross branches are being drained to address the Harvey challenge.
A look at Federal and State government policy trends, influenced by the politics of the day, pretty clearly reminds us that we're going to have to work harder and smarter at the local levels to build better communities for ourselves, our families and friends. Thus, we have unlimited opportunities to put our hearts and minds and bodies to work. Together. To strengthen our schools, our healthcare, our economic opportunities, our justice system, the arts, the environment, responsible government...while respecting the diversity of interests that deserve a voice and a place at the community table.
A Mosey Reflection
Those of us out of harm's way can be grateful for our good fortune, wish Grace for the many who are suffering tremendous hardship, and channel our charitable impulses locally. Many of our local non-profits are responding to the coastal challenges, and our checks and personal volunteer efforts can quickly satisfy our desire to help. We'll make a positive difference wherever we focus our hearts and minds and constructive action. We'll all win in the process. LET'S MOSEY!